If I don’t understand chemistry and decay rates how will I be able to learn enough medicine to treat patients!
So much for a fun bday weekend.
there is no amount of defending you can do that makes rape role play and fantasies ok its literally so trivializing to treat it like its not a bunch of disgusting adults getting off on things that ruin lives i fucking hate the internet i s2g
It’s really not of your business what consenting adults do in the privacy of their bedroom. There is nothing wrong with adults who act out rape and incest fantasies as long as thy are both consenting. Again we are not talking about actual rape and non-consensual incest. We are talking about role play and fantasy.
oh my god are you????????? serious????????????? first of all girl youre not even an adult stay in your lane with the consenting adult argument also idk how to break this to you i hate to have to be the one to say it but if youre getting off to rape/noncon fantasies you are literally trash there is nothing you can say on this that is going to justify the romanticizing of rape i never thought i’d have to explain this to someone yet here we are
You’re so wrong and you don’t even know it.
wow excuse me, marion “i support the trivialization of traumatizing events as a means to cum” mayer, i actually am very positive im absolutely 100% right and the fact that you cant see this worries me greatly i feel like i need to sit down with ur parents and have a long talk with them and also like you need to go to church this sunday
1. I’m not religious. 2. I never trivialized rape. so…?
girl!!!!! using rape fantasies and role playing as a means to get off is trivializing in one of the HIGHEST DEGREES do not fucking tell me i dont know something about two huge parts of my life
Did it even occur to you that some people might be participating in these things because they are trying to regain control and help themselves heal? As a survivor of rape, roleplaying has helped me quite a lot in dealing with what happened to me. It gave me a safe environment with someone I trust where I could face what happened and still have control over the situation. If I started to feel even remotely triggered or hurt I’d safeword and everything would stop and we would talk about what happened and made sure I was okay. It gave me a lot of my confidence back.
I am not the only person who has done this. There are studies that show that roleplay can be extremely helpful for survivors.
Please stop. I understand, rape is a terrible thing, but fantasy and roleplay are not. Consent is key.
Let me help out read this: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/unique-everybody-else/201307/bdsm-personality-and-mental-health
Also I am a consenting adult (over 21 even). I practice BDSM with my significant other. I have also never been with anyone who has treated me with such immense and kindness. I trust him completely. And we talk about everything. When it is too much all it takes is a look a sound, a word, Stop, anything and he stops. Then attends to my needs be it emotional or physical.
I have also been the victim of violent attempted rape. However, because of the intimate relationship I possess with my partner he was able to help me work through some of the “sexual” trauma. (My therapist agrees that our relationship is extremely health because of the required openness.)
If you do not like/agree with Kink in general then do not participate. This does not give you the right to slut shame/kink shame other people because you are not understanding where they come from or why they participate in more flavorful bedroom activities. Please do not be an ass hole.
I sometimes wish that this was still middle school and your friends would tell your boyfriend (or what ever the fuck he is supposed to be) what to do to make things better. Because it would be nice if someone would call him up and say “hey so she is having a hard time dealing with life right now and the fact that you are practically dating your best friend makes her a little crazy. you should probably try to reassure her more.”
I sometimes say mean stuff I don’t mean when my feelings are hurt, and basically that means it is time for that “Reassure me and tell me to knock it off times” But of course feelings are already hurt and they don’t want to do anything for you.
I said sorry…kind of?
A hot shower is the best way to wash away the sins from the night before.